By Pamela McFarlane
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December 10, 2020
Like most people, you probably deal with your fair share of workplace annoyances and lately, pandemic anxiety. From the meeting that gets rescheduled yet again or navigating the tricky world of family, work and trying to fit in relaxation and exercise, your stress levels may spike multiple times throughout a single day. How are some people able to stay calm and productive in response to challenges while others are easily rattled? To find answers, let's look to those who have mastered the art of composure under pressure: The U.S. Navy SEALs. There's no question that the SEALs face some of the most difficult situations any human could encounter. Because of this, they've developed ways to apply the emerging science of grit, resilience, and emotional regulation to effectively manage stress. In fact, neural scans show that some SEALs have a remarkable ability to remain calm in response to threatening situations. Their brains respond differently to stress, activating neural centers related to emotional control instead of ones related to anxiety and fear. A practice that SEAL teams use in times of trouble is one you can borrow at your desk. The secret? It's called box breathing or four-square breathing. Here's how it works: Breathe in for four seconds. Hold air in your lungs for four seconds. Exhale for four seconds. Hold your breath, lungs emptied, for four seconds Just try it! I use this technique before a session of cave diving. Yes, this is a fun way to see part of this Earth that few get to see and explore. To overcome the claustrophobia and fears, I have used this method along with the tap. The tap is a way to slow down your breathing and panic. Here's how it works; Take your index finger and start tapping the finger on your hand or arm to the tune of Happy Birthday Slow down the verses and tapping slows down as well When the song is done, your breathing is slower, tapping is slow and you feel a lot calmer